Military Cupid Review 2019

Military Cupid is an online dating website for members of the military and singles – generally women – who want to date those in the military. The website is a member of the Cupid Media network, which itself dates back all the way to 1999. The Military Cupid website was first launched in 2004.

Military Cupid is a military dating website that works similar to other Cupid Media websites. The main difference is that it is focused towards members of the military. With that said, there are surprisingly few military-specific features (such as being able to define military rank and unit) and anyone can join the site, no matter their occupation.

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Registration Process

This military dating website has a fast and simple signup process. Users are able to sign in instantly through their Facebook account if they so choose. Users will be asked some basic checklist questions as well as three open-ended questions. Filling out the profile completely takes a little longer. It requires you to answer 12 of these open-ended questions and complete a Hobbies and Interests section where you choose from over 100 different interests and activities that you are interested in. Users can upload up to 5 photos to their account, with users who connect through Facebook able to import photos directly from the social media service.


Unlimited Messages

If you upgrade to a premium account, you are able to send and receive as many messages as you wish. This includes messages sent to and from free users. Even free members have options to express their interest in you and start up a conversation. It’s up to you whethe or not you choose to continue the conversation.

Instant Messaging

You also get complete access to the Military Cupid instant messaging service. This allows you to start one-to-one conversations with any online member any time you choose. Instantly connect with other members and see where the conversation takes you.

Personality Profile

Paid members have the option of choosing what is included in their “personality profile”. This feature presents you with a list of questions about yourself to answer. These answers are compiled and used to give users a better picture of the kind of person you are. You can include the information from your personal profile in your instant and private messages too; including your Facebook and Twitter account or email address. That way, you can connect to users outside of the dating platform if you want.

Video Mail Messages

One of the most interesting features that Military Cupid offers is the ability to create, send, and watch video messages to other users. Let them see who you really are and show them your face and mannerisms. Users are able to send video messages back to you if they are interested in doing so. Videos are much more personal than basic text messages and give you a much better feel for the person you are talking to.

Paid Membership Options

Military Cupid offers two different paid memberships for their military dating service; Gold and Platinum.

The gold membership comes with everything included in the free membership, as well as some extra features including the alpha mentioned instant messaging system, the ability to create a personality profile, and the ability to read, send, and receive messages to – and from – free members. Gold members are also featured higher in search results than basic members. This gives you a better chance to be seen by other users and should see you get more messages and potential matches.

Platinum membership comes with the ability to watch video profiles of other members that upload them, send and reply to video messages from other users, and be highlighted in search results above not just standard members but also gold members. Platinum members are featured the highest and are therefore the most likely to receive a response.

Translation Services

A great feature of Military Cupid is that it offers translation services. If you connect with someone that doesn’t speak your language, or is from another country entirely, you have the option to translate your messages directly into their language and they can translate their messages into your language. The system isn’t perfect, but it certainly makes things easier. No need to worry about doing something like copying and pasting a message into Google Translate just to talk to someone.


  • Extensive searching and matching features
  • A clean and pleasant user interface
  • Ability to verify the identity of users and search only verified members


  • The best features are locked to expensive premium memberships
  • Limited military-specific features
  • High cost of membership

MilitaryCupid Membership

Duration Price per Month Total price
1 Month $34.99 $34.99
3 months $23.33 $69.98
12 months $12.50 $149.99


Military personnel have more reason than most to be concerned about their safety, security, and privacy. You don’t want to expose yourself unnecessarily. Military Cupid understands this need, and allows users to remain anonymous for as long as they feel they have to be. When you divulge actual personal information and contact information to another user is entirely up to you.

Not sure about online dating safety best practices? This military dating site has you covered. Like all of the best websites of this kind, they provide an online dating safety page packed full of useful tips and information. Take a look through it for yourself and learn more about protecting yourself when using online dating services.

Military Cupid also allows users to verify their identity by scanning htier government-issued ID. Members are able to search for other users by searching for only verified users. Basically, you can choose to verify yourself and only connect with other verified users as an extra security step.

Final Verdict

Military personnel put themselves through a lot for the sake of their country and their fellow men. One compromise they tend to have to make is sacrificing the chance at finding love. This doesn’t always have to be the case though. Military dating services such as Military Cupid have made it easier than ever for members of the military to find the love they deserve. If you are a member of the military, or want to show your love and support to someone who is, then we recommend checking out Military Cupid.